Enjoying Valentine’s Day Alone
Tips for Surviving Valentine's Day Without a Special Someone
As Valentine's Day approaches, it's awaited with unbridled anticipation for those with a special someone in their lives. But what if you're alone?
As Valentine's Day approaches, it's awaited with unbridled anticipation for those with a special someone in their lives. But what if you're alone? It's easy to feel sorry for yourself, watching numerous ads flash before you of lovers holding hands, sharing that special day set aside for lovers.
Can you get through Valentine's Day if you're alone? It's hard enough if you're separated from your Valentine who may be overseas in the military or away on a business trip. But what if you don't have a Valentine at all?
You can get through and even enjoy Valentine's Day if you have the right attitude. If you think about it, Valentine's Day is really about enjoying one another, wearing a little red, and showing our love to special people in our lives. Here are a few tips for not only surviving, but also enjoying Valentine's Day....
Give to a Good Cause
Think of a favorite charity or organization that needs help and write out a check. It could be anything from giving to the American Cancer Society to adopting a child in a third world county. On the other hand, if you have a friend who's struggling, physically or emotionally, think of practical way you can help.
Give Anonymously
Rather than receive credit for your good deed(s), remain anonymous. There's something about giving anonymously that blesses both the receiver, as well as the giver even more than if you were acknowledged for your acts of good will. After all, remember the words of Jesus in his famous "Sermon on the Mount, "But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you." (Matthew 6: 3-4)
Reach Out and Touch Someone
Pick up the phone and reconnect with someone you've lost contact with over the years. At first, it may seem awkward when you dial that number, fearing rejection. However, as soon as you hear a familiar "hello", the words just seem to tumble out of your mouth.
Send Cards and Emails
Do you know of folks in your church or neighborhood who are ill or going through difficulties? Write them cards, letters, and notes of encouragement, assuring them you're praying for them. On the other hand, visit them with homemade Valentine treats. Not only will they feel better, but you'll also feel good. In addition, send emails to people who need an encouraging word.
Hang Out with Friends and Family
Be assured you're not the only one who's alone on Valentine's Day. There are countless others who don't have a special someone. Although Valentine's Day is focused on romance, it's also about loving other people. In other words, hang out with someone who's important to you, such as a group of friends. You could even spend the day with your family, such as your parents, siblings, or grandparents. If you have an elderly parent, aunt, uncle, or grandparent who's alone, your time would be a precious Valentine gift.
Finally, if you still feel lonely, remember that God loves you---that you’re His special Valentine. When you eat that little candied heart with the words "be mine" inscribed in the center, just think of how God has called you to Himself--- how he has called you His own. "I have called you by name; you are Mine!" (Isaiah 43:1) Knowing you're his special Valentine, reach out and share His love with someone who needs it. You'll both have a blessed Valentine's Day and feel better.
